Yes folks, this happens, more than you might think.
The following example is fictitious and/or modified in substantial part, to shield the identity of the potential client. We will call him Mr. Angrey. Said gentleman did not bulk at the upfront retainer nor the hourly rate that would be charged. Having been divorced for two years with three middle school children he wanted to file for a modification of custody and take his ex-wife broke in the process. He wanted to call all kinds of witnesses to besmirch the mother of his children’s character. He wanted a Shark!
All of the children were in good health and doing exceptionally well in school. There were a few co-parenting complaints, some with merit, and most without. Many complaints over slight lateness for child drop offs and failure to respond to texts and emails in a “timely” fashion (a relative term), but nothing substantial. The real issue, I came to learn, “ Magnus.” Of course, mom has a new boyfriend, and Mr. Angrey does not approve of Magnus. According to mom, Magnus is great with the children and respectful to her and her family and even to Mr. Angrey.
Mr. Angrey
Under Maryland Law, a summation of what constitutes a material change in circumstances is an alteration in the facts and conditions associated with the custodial scheme or arrangement so significant that the existing plan no longer satisfies the best interests of the child or children. If such a situation does not exist, the Courts will not modify custody. In other words, don’t waste your time, money and energy filing to modify custody if you are only faced with the typical acrimony that often comes with post-divorce situations. Instead of pursuing legal issues, you might do better working on your communication skills and identifying how to best interact with a contentious and combative person who enjoys conflict. Of course, if you think that a material change of circumstances might exist, you should consult with an experienced child custody lawyer before taking any legal action.
Either way, I suggest checking out the materials available at: https://highconflictinstitute.com/
Sincerely,
Mike the Lawyer